Thread: advice...

No, I would not care!! It's a nursery, it's not like you copied her or anything. And if she's not having anymore kids, then why would she act like that?? I know that deep down I would probably be a little hurt because it was a girl and you were doing the theme that I wanted to do and I never got a little girl (if that makes sense), but I don't think that it's anything to freak out about. I would continue to plan to do that theme, it's what you want, not her.

Wow, sounds like your sister is just out to cause trouble! I could understand it if she were pregnant too, but she's not even planning on any more kids? I think you should do whatever feels right to you. If you really want the ladybugs, go for it... but it might cause more drama. I'd probably see if there was something else that I liked, not because she has a rational point (she doesn't) but because I'm the sort of person who tries to avoid conflict in the family if/when I can. But it's your choice, so do what you want. If you want ladybugs, too bad for your sister. (Plus, if she ever does end up with a girl, there'd be hand-me-downs)

That's really immature of your sister IMO. Even if she could have more kids what is the big deal really? Its not like you are using the name she has always wanted to name her little girl its a BEDROOM set!....... Not a life changing thing.

I say go on with the themes you want.

No, I wouldn't care what she wanted.
Then again, we dont' tell anybody anything until we do it (like the name thing).
It sounds like you shouldn't tell your mom and sister any more info about the baby cause they are either getting mad or voicing their unwanted opinions...personally, I would stop telling them stuff.
Sorry they are being so crappy to you.

Thanks girls...she is the type of person who gets jealous and mad...No matter what i do there will be drama with her...my mom said maybe she'd get unmad if she got me the set instead of me doing it myself...and my sister said she wants to Borrow the baby if its a girl and then give her back...she wants to be able to do hair and nails and girlie stuff with...which i can understand...but i have 2 older girls now she could do things with but she NEVER spends time with them...and i kind of took offense to "borrow" my child...she keeps making comments...the one she said 5 mins ago when i was talking to her she said now you have so many kids my kids wont get alot for christmas from mom and dad....my parents got ALL the kids last year ALOT of stuff...spent bout 200$ on each...i'd say they will be fine...ugh...i think im gonna take a break from her and not tell hr a dang thing about the baby!

Originally Posted by Anthonysmommy

...ugh...i think im gonna take a break from her and not tell hr a dang thing about the baby!

Good idea!

What is up with your family lately? Would it make them happy if you just let them do everything for you and make all you decisions and run your life? Forget about it, she can grow up and get over it. You do whatever you want to do and if you sister doesnt like it then thats her problem.

P.S. Do whatever you want in any situation. They need to realize you are an adult and make your own choices based on your own need and whats best for you and your family.

Originally Posted by Ashley

That's really immature of your sister IMO. Even if she could have more kids what is the big deal really? Its not like you are using the name she has always wanted to name her little girl its a BEDROOM set!....... Not a life changing thing.

I say go on with the themes you want.

Yep! Exactly what she said!

IMO she needs to grow up a bit, very immature of her! it's only a bedroom set, not a name, besides there are many different designs of ladybugs you can choose from! Anyhow, ignore her and don't tell her anything more about the baby! She'll get over it!