Idk what to do

**jgch4eva** · November 5th, 2007, 12:39 PM

so next weekend is my bf nans b-day and they wanna go down 2 the beach i dnt wanna go he dnt really either this is the 1st time they have every done this having a party down at the beach 4 her i dnt know y they are im just freaking out cuz i will be 9months preg. and the beach is about 4 hrs away from my hospital so idk i know i can ask the dr. but also my sis is due ne day now 2 so if i get down there nd she goes nd i miss it i will be pissed so idk y they need 2 go 2 the beach i just dnt know what 2 do

**DeidreVl** · November 5th, 2007, 12:54 PM

When I was 9 months pregnant I didn't go more than an hour away, just in case. My DH's cousin that lives and hour and half away had a graduation party and the family understood that we wernt going. I was also 3cm dialated. I'm sure if you explain to them that you don't feel conftrble going they will understand.

**jgch4eva** · November 5th, 2007, 01:04 PM

yeah we tried 2 tell them we didnt want 2 travel so far away b/c of that fact and they got mad at us and said that we never wanna do ne thing with them and they dont understand so they told my bf just 2 leave me behind and for him just go down 2 the beach so if ne thing happens then i can go 2 the hospital but if ne thing happends i want him there his family dnt like me very much b/c they see me as the person who took thier son and grandson away his mom is the only one that understands his mom and dad arent married ne more but they told us if we didnt go they would be very mad at us i still dont know y they need 2 have a party 4 her down at the beach house

**pinder_baby04** · November 5th, 2007, 03:03 PM

to hell with them......i just won't go...if you don't feel comfortable about going hun, don't go....and tell your bf you'd like for him to be there just in case.....i'm sure he wouldn't want to miss his child's birth just to be at some party......tell them, there's always a next b-day party....

**jgch4eva** · November 5th, 2007, 03:14 PM

Originally Posted by pinder_baby04

to hell with them......i just won't go...if you don't feel comfortable about going hun, don't go....and tell your bf you'd like for him to be there just in case.....i'm sure he wouldn't want to miss his child's birth just to be at some party......tell them, there's always a next b-day party....

that is exactly what i told my bf hell his family well his dads side of the family dnt even know when my due date is they were gonna try nd take a week off work 2 go down 2 the beach 4 christmas nd my due date is the 24th they thought i was due later nd we told them 5 million times when i was due idk what is going on w/ them all of a sudden they just started acting like this nd it is really starting 2 get on our last nerve and we decided 2 get married through a judge and prob not have his dads side there cuz they think we shouldnt get married they got mad when we got engaged and we both have a feeling they are not even gonna show up when we tell them i am in labor so we just about had it w/ them