Thread: Affair or not?

Well I don't like to jump to conclusions and judge but that sure sounded like an affair to me. An older man texting a 19 year old girl six times a day, waiting for his wife to go into the bath and then calling her up? Friends my @$$. HAHAHA. And for her to resign from the company is a pretty extreme thing to do if you didn't do anything wrong to begin with. Oh and let's say he didn't actually get to do the deed with her, but I guarantee everytime he was typing up a little text he was wetting himself.

I know if I was the one texting some guy like that and calling him up while DH was in the bath I'd be in big trouble.


Anywhooo like I said...I don't like to be judgemental or anything.

I have been in a similar situation. My Ex had a phone in MY name and was calling his mistress on it all the time, but wold never even let me use theh phone. Come to fnd out he was indeed cheating. (long story short)

I am not saying by any means that he is cheating but you might want to look into it. He should not be contacting her at all when you are not around if they are in fact, just friends.

It sure sounds like an affair to me, Like Ahlam says i dont want to jump to conclusions but why has she resigned if shes not done anything wrong?

Gotta agree with Ahlam too...it's way to suspicious that they both quit their jobs if nothing was going on.

And it's inappropriate in my opinion for a husband to be texting a female without his wife knowing about it...

Good luck, I'm sure this is very difficult for you

I hate to say it, but something totally shady is going on there. Obviously we can't say he's 'done the deed', but he's definitely having some kind of emotional affair with her. I would have to be questioning his loyalty if I were you. I'm sorry he's acted like a jerk.

there is something going on there.
at least she has left the company.
i would make sure he doesn't still have contact with her because there is no excuse now.
stupid men!

yup. sounds like affair to me!

Wanted to know how things are with you and ur dh? xx

Originally Posted by Danielle

And it's inappropriate in my opinion for a husband to be texting a female without his wife knowing about it...

Yup, I have to agree with this statement. I don't care that my husband has female friends, but if he's going to be talking to them on the phone or texting them, then I sure as h*ll better know about it!