Thread: Having issues w/DH

I really hope it works out for you. I can't believe he throws this at you at the time you're expecting a second child. Was he not on board to having another child? It takes two to tango and just 9 weeks ago he must of thought the marriage was ok! Errg Men! I would be so fuming with him for being so insensitive right now and thinking only of himself. I just feel sorry for you. If he can't give you clear reasons of what is wrong with the marriage or you, then it is his problem. Maybe a little time apart would do him good and he'd miss you and his child? On the other hand, he seems kind of selfish and may just be fine with the sudden freedom. Not to be blunt, but do you think he may be seeing someone else? Hugs! I think you need to do what is best for you and your babies. If that is to go back to CA to be in a loving supporting environment, do that. If it is to stay and fight for your marriage and knock some sense into your hubby then do that. All the best.

Originally Posted by LeahP

USMC - I asked him last night and he didn't seem interested. He doesn't touch alcohol and has no other issues so unfortunately he wouldn't "have" to go to counseling. When I first told him about the pregnancy he seemed a bit upset, but after that he said he was happy about it, so I thought he was happy. I knew I was happy about, especially since things were supposedly going so well between us. Now I have no friggin idea what to think since I guess I can't see straight. LOL. I don't think I'm so retarded that I would thinks things are great when they really aren't. Maybe it IS the pregnancy. I mean, geez, he seems more hormonal than I do, and I cry at the drop of a hat.

~Leah

i will not lie at all my husband doesn't seem the least bit interested in this pregnancy like he was with alexa he just says that is nice or oh great...i know my husband is gone but i still want him to be happy like he was with alexa...it is hard....

Gosh your mother in law sounds like a joy!!! And for him to take her side would annoy me.

My mom truely believes second babies do something to men. DF was ina funk still kinda is when I was pregnant. He is ex military and will be going back in and that seems to be all that he thinks about, not us not involving me in any of the decisions blah blah blah it annoys me just not going into it (we can chat for hours on IM if you want to vent together)

Samantha - LOL. We should definitely vent about the man preggo funk and MEN making decisions without us... LOL. Just give me your IM info. I have AIM and Yahoo!

~Leah

Oh and MIL is wonderful. If it were up to her, I'd be DH's full-time nanny.

~Leah

Originally Posted by LeahP

Oh and MIL is wonderful. If it were up to her, I'd be DH's full-time nanny.

~Leah

LOL well maybe someday. I'll PM you but I think I have it set to private so you will need to PM me your name too