I really hope it works out for you. I can't believe he throws this at you at the time you're expecting a second child. Was he not on board to having another child? It takes two to tango and just 9 weeks ago he must of thought the marriage was ok! Errg Men! I would be so fuming with him for being so insensitive right now and thinking only of himself. I just feel sorry for you. If he can't give you clear reasons of what is wrong with the marriage or you, then it is his problem. Maybe a little time apart would do him good and he'd miss you and his child? On the other hand, he seems kind of selfish and may just be fine with the sudden freedom. Not to be blunt, but do you think he may be seeing someone else? Hugs! I think you need to do what is best for you and your babies. If that is to go back to CA to be in a loving supporting environment, do that. If it is to stay and fight for your marriage and knock some sense into your hubby then do that. All the best.