Thread: ok i know its wierd but i kinda dont know wat to do

That my dear is something no one can help with,only you can decide.my fiance would never let me go out with other people,hes a bit too jealous!goodluck with your decision.

Only you can decide that hun... i personally wouldnt and my hubby wouldnt let me see other guys...

The only advice i can offer you is to not get married. {not being harsh} You need to look down deep and figure out what you want, and maybe look into why your future hubby is ok with you seeing other men...

Only you can figure this one out, I hope you make the right choice husbabnd to be sounds like a pretty nice guy exspecially if hes letting you speak to the ex still, mine would never let me do that. good luck!

I'm not sure how you can call your soon to be husband "clingy" if he is letting you see other guys, including your ex!

Only you can decide. If you love your husband to be then ditch the ex. Its not fair to continue seeing him even if you have his permission.

only you can decide, but in my opinion you don't sound ready to get married to either one of them, if you were you'd know who you wanted to be with.

I think you need to be 100% sure for awhile about who you want to spend the rest of your life with before you make a commitment like that. In my opinion you should not be dating other people if you are engaged. If your fiance is ok with that it doesnt sound right.

You don't sound ready to get married at all! My advice would be to call off the wedding, get a bit older and wiser and then make a balanced decision. Hearts are on the line...

Good luck!

I'm going to give you the same advice that I would give my little sister if she were in this situation...I don't think that either of you are ready to get married. If you are wanting to hang out with other guys (especially an ex) and your fiance is willing to allow you to hang out with other guys (again especially and ex) than both of you need to stop and think about if this is really what you want.
I had a relationship at your age that I thought was going to be my forever and as we aged a little, we found that it was more of a comfort zone than true love. Now that I am even older I am so glad that I didn't marry him, because I am so much happier, and know that it would have ended in unhappiness or divorce. Just really think about what you are getting yourself into, and especially before you start thinking about having children with him. But ultimately it's your desicion.
I wish you good luck!