That my dear is something no one can help with,only you can decide.my fiance would never let me go out with other people,hes a bit too jealous!goodluck with your decision.
so ok i am getting married in febuary and im in love with my soon to be husband.... but the thing is he lets me go out wit other guys so that i can get it all out of my system.... lately i have been going out wit my ex and i know i still have deep feelings for him.... everyone is telling me im a slut because i have two guys that love me so much and that i need to choose one but i have no clue which one to choose i love them both the soon to be husband is great he is sweet and nice and doesnt do anything bad at all but he is way to clingy and can be stupid and the ex is kind of a bad boy the type i love so much but he is really trying to change his ways like he has been going to rehab but he does have alot of issues.... im so confused of who i should be with can someone help me out please.
Only you can decide that hun... i personally wouldnt and my hubby wouldnt let me see other guys...
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Only you can figure this one out, I hope you make the right choice husbabnd to be sounds like a pretty nice guy exspecially if hes letting you speak to the ex still, mine would never let me do that. good luck!
I'm not sure how you can call your soon to be husband "clingy" if he is letting you see other guys, including your ex!
Only you can decide. If you love your husband to be then ditch the ex. Its not fair to continue seeing him even if you have his permission.
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I think you need to be 100% sure for awhile about who you want to spend the rest of your life with before you make a commitment like that. In my opinion you should not be dating other people if you are engaged. If your fiance is ok with that it doesnt sound right.
You don't sound ready to get married at all! My advice would be to call off the wedding, get a bit older and wiser and then make a balanced decision. Hearts are on the line...
I'm going to give you the same advice that I would give my little sister if she were in this situation...I don't think that either of you are ready to get married. If you are wanting to hang out with other guys (especially an ex) and your fiance is willing to allow you to hang out with other guys (again especially and ex) than both of you need to stop and think about if this is really what you want.
I had a relationship at your age that I thought was going to be my forever and as we aged a little, we found that it was more of a comfort zone than true love. Now that I am even older I am so glad that I didn't marry him, because I am so much happier, and know that it would have ended in unhappiness or divorce. Just really think about what you are getting yourself into, and especially before you start thinking about having children with him. But ultimately it's your desicion.
I wish you good luck!
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