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    Hey Skye, Found the info finally!!!!!!!!! Msg'd you on FB but thought I would post here a well. Perhaps one of the gals may be able to add something to it. Good luck this afternoon hun.
    Here is what the post said.

    "After my BFN cycle I searched high and low for questions to ask at my follow-up (WTF) appointment. I know that at the time of a BFN we are usually going through lots of emotions and often too many to be able to putt a list of questions together. These are very random questions and may not apply to everyone. I thought I would put them here is this section since it seems the most appropriate.

    1. What were the main factors that contributed to this negative cycle?
    (well you might as well start with the obvious one!!)

    2. What are this clinics success rates for couples in our position (taking age and diagnosis into consideration)? And what is that statistic nationally?

    3. Eggs:
    a) How was the quality of the eggs? (Were they mature enough?)
    b)Were there as many as you were expecting?
    c) Would having egg collection a few days earlier or later help?
    d) Would more monitoring during the stimulation phase help you to control my drugs better (and thus get a better result)?
    e) Is there anything else that can be done to improve the eggs?
    f) Can we still do egg share? /Should we consider using an egg donor?

    4. Sperm:
    a) How was the quality of the sperm?
    b.i)Had the count, motility or morphology improved at all?
    b.ii) Is there anything that can be done to improve this?
    c) Would we get better results with SSR?
    d) Should we consider donor sperm (or ‘donor back-up’)?
    e) Should we consider an appointment with an urologist? (Whom would you recommend?)

    5. Embryological questions:
    a) How did the embryologist feel the ICSI procedure went? (E.g. was it easy to find sperm of good morphology in the sample?)
    b)How well did fertilization go? (E.g. more quickly or slowly than expected)
    c) Did any fertilized eggs produce unusual results? (E.g. 3 nuclei)
    d) What was the overall quality of the embryos like?
    e) How do you grade them/what is your opinion of grading vs. live baby rate?
    f) Does any of this suggest any issues?
    g) Could assisted hatching help us?
    h) Would delaying transfer (or carrying it out earlier) have helped?
    i) What is your opinion on going for blastocysts next time?
    j) Can the embryologist remove the fragmentation in the embryos?
    k) What do you feel the link is between fertilisation rate, embryo quality and live baby rate?
    l) What is the policy with regard to freezing/frozen embryos?


    6. The drugs:
    a) How do you feel I responded to the drugs for down regulation? (Did it take longer or less time than expected?)
    b)How do you feel I responded to the drugs for stimulation? (Did I respond too quickly or too slowly? Did I produce enough eggs? Did coasting for a few days effect egg quality?)
    c) Did the trigger injection work as expected? (Should I have taken it earlier or later for better results?)
    d) Do you feel I am on right drugs at the right dose or should this be changed next time?

    7. Further tests:
    a) Are their any further blood/hormone tests you would now recommend? (E.g. FSH, E2, etc.)
    b)Should we test for immune issues?
    c) Should we test for sticky blood?
    d) Should we have any further genetic tests?
    e) Would you recommend having a hysteroscopy? (Why?)
    f) i) Would there be any point to do PGD?
    ii) How many embryos to you need for this?
    iii) What are the risks involved?
    iv) Is each embryo tested for one genetic disease or 9 of the listed diseases?

    8. Next cycle:
    a) When can we try again? (Why then?)
    b.i) Which drugs for down-regulation?
    ii) Why do you feel this one would be better?
    iii) What dose?
    e) i) Which drugs for stimulation?
    ii) Why do you feel this one would be better?
    iii) What dose?
    f) Would you recommend any additional treatment this time? (E.g. low doses of aspirin, IVIG, heparin, etc.)

    What do you feel went wrong/right with this cycle?
    Would do you anything different if we did another cycle?
    Do you have any insight as to what happened this cycle?
    Was there any concern with egg or sperm quality?
    Was there any concerns with how my body responded to the IVF medications during this cycle? (My concerns are.....) What do you think our chances of success are with FET?
    What do you think are the chances of success if we try again?
    Are there any additional tests you feel we should explore before moving to another cycle?
    Will you keep me on the same protocol or put me on a different protocol? If so why?
    Do you have any concerns about this past cycle or future cycles?"
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    Thanks!
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    Good Questions!

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    Those are great questions. Good luck at your follow-up appointment. It does suck that they couldn't put more than one embryo in. Hope you get some answers.

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    Skye, please update....how did your appointment go??
    February 27th, 2013 - Our miracle boy, Gage Joseph is born!
    June 25th, 2012 - please stick little
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    October 12, 2011 - chemical
    July 10, 2011 - chemical m/c
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    November 2010 - m/c 10 weeks.


    Sticky dust to Carolyn and Miranda!

    GAGE JOSEPH IS HERE!!!




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    Great questions JO. I will have to save them in case.

    Skye, I would love to hear what happened today also!
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    OMG. I think I could write a book on my appointment today. I'm not sure how to feel, a little bit better, and a lot angry.

    So remember those *other* embryos that "didn't make it". Well they were fine. They were Grade 3. We had 2 Grade 2 Embryos, and 4 Grade 3 Embryos. My doc says the govt. has put a lot of pressure on the fertility clinics to only put in one embryo always, so that is why the doc only put in one. She said if it were her, she would have put in both of 'em. She said in a different scenario, they would have frozen the 4 Grade 3 embryos. If we only had made Grade 3, they would have put two in and froze 2.

    The doc also said that there was nothing wrong with our Grade 3, embryos, nor our Grade 2 ones, my eggs were great, the sperm was great, in fact that is part of the reason they didn't freeze more, because they see how well I respond to the meds and figure they can get more from me again. Grrr...

    So the FET to transfer my one embryo is scheduled for JULY. I really thought it would be much sooner. DH is glad, cause he wants to take a break from TTC and tell his parents about the IVF and the fertility treatments. I am thinking of giving in on telling his parents just because it is consuming us for so much of our time and he feels like he is keeping secrets from them. The doc said no IUIs in between now and the transfer, and that I should just try not to think about it.
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    So, I don't completely understand?? They didn't freeze them all because they know that you can produce more later if needed? And if they would have frozen them, would they have to go through them all before getting more from you? Doesn't it cost more if you go through the whole process again? I know you are covered but would it be different for those who aren't covered? Do you have to pay for anything?

    But I thought that they always try to put two in if you are younger than 35 years old and they will put in up to three if you are over 35? Am I wrong?
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    And I am so sorry that you are angry. I know you said that DH is happy that you are waiting till July to transfer but how are you feeling? Would you have rathered done it sooner? Are you okay with telling the parents?
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    Quote Originally Posted by MrsJazz View Post
    And I am so sorry that you are angry. I know you said that DH is happy that you are waiting till July to transfer but how are you feeling? Would you have rathered done it sooner? Are you okay with telling the parents?
    They changed the rule. It's not more than one over age 35 anymore. Stupid stupid stupid Quebec laws.

    I would have rather done it sooner and just moved on to a fresh IVF cycle. I of course, was thinking that after day 5 our embryos were just dying off though, which now I know they are not, and if this was done privately they would have frozen them and put in 2 at a time AT LEAST, and I would probably do it every two months, and be pregnant or at least done with this IVF cycle by July.

    I suggested to DH maybe we should go to a private clinic. He says he is glad for the break until July, and I can't argue with that too much, since it has been so stressful. I am in a kind of don't care about telling the parents now mood. I feel like it has become such a large part of our lives, our infertility, that maybe sharing it with them will help make it less stressful.

    One super nice and awesome thing my doc said, that I just remembered, is that my ovarian reserve is like a 30 year old's. :D
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    Beta Nov. 7th/ BFN.

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