Thread: Relationship With A Man ........................

Hi everyone,
I'm a single MOM as most of you know, but should i stay single for the rest of my life?? have children?? (more)? Well since I came here to New Jersey there been this guy that likes me alot, he sees me every day in the city, He is a hot FIREFIGHTER and he says hi and everything though he has no kids and i have three he likes me is that normal??? He says he loves children, we talk we went for Lunch twice, but i'm afraid of becoming to close and ending up like my last RELATIONSHIP, I'm ashamed to be honest, all i went through , and having for children "YIKES" Scared is not the word, what should i do... keep things like thet are and stay single or "GO FOR IT">? i have issues with guys, argument, fighting, honesty problem, the kids father denies them even went he wwent for all that testing and it came that "HE WAS THE DAD" i don't know what to do anymore!

Hope you guys know what you would do if you were in my position!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

You think that if i was having more children will it be just one for sure???
or this time will be 4???????

I'm not one to give relationship advice, but I do believe we have to take chances with people. Being open and honest is the best way to go.

yes, that i was thinking elleth, Well give it a shot, it won't kill me, i've been through alot that nothing else will hurt me, my brother called me i was surprized VERY
thanks hun

Let us know how it goes!

Hunny, Do not feel ashamed about your past, your past has made you who you are today.
love always
sofia
xxx

life is too short to spend it wondering if he knows that you have kids and he likes kids, have him over for tea and then see what happens next.

Just because you are a single mum doesnt mean you cant have relationships.

good luck from myself my baby and my hubby and the dog

19 weeks
liam nearly 11 months and asleep (i hope)

hey sweetheart, dont let ur past stop u from moving on, as one of the other girls mentioned, ur past made u the way u r. everyone makes mistakes, and we all get out fingers burnt from time to time, but thats how we learn. U deserve to be happy! From sounds of it this man really likes you, and is happy with the fact u have children, U really like him, id go for it. U owe it 2 urself 2 b happy and just cos uve got kids it doesnt mean the dating world has ended for u, u just have responsabilities. U sound like u have ur head screwed on correctly, and have morals and respect, and believe me honey, we all have a jerk in our past wed rather forget about, just dont let him stop u having fun! hope u figure it out and are happy :) how old are ur children and what are their names?? x x