Thread: Reminders keep coming

I am a little sad today. My baby's due date would have been October 5th had she not been ectopic. Apparently all the baby companies know I was pregnant because I keep getting things in the mail. Yesterday I got a "free gift" of a calendar with a bunch of stickers to mark all the baby's firsts. I nearly started bawling right there looking at it. I quit looking, but haven't been able to make myself throw it away.
I wonder how many more reminders will keep coming in the mail.

Oh Elleth

I am sorry you got that reminder. I don't know exactly what you are going through but know that I am here if you need a shoulder. I know your turn will be very, very soon.

Keep the Faith!!!!


Sending your way.


Samstars

Hi Elleth

I am sorry to hear about the reminders try to think positive and maybe think those gifts have been sent for a reason ( i assume you are trying for another child) so maybe it's a sign to keep them. I know it must be a sad time for you and alothough I don't know the full quest ttc the summary at the bottom of your posts is enouh to make us all see how fantastic a gift having children really is.

It will be if its meant to be. keep smiling and posting all your thoughts.

k19ely

Dear Elleth,

I dont have any words to console you but it hurts me a lot to see you sad. We are all there for you so dont worry I pray sincerely that God does a lot of miracles in your life and make you a mom soon!

Love,
Jen

dear elleth
iam sorry to hear that but i think it reminds you not only by the ectopic pregnancy which didn't completed but also that you can be a mother and you wil!
cheer up!you will be a mommy and what you need besides the vitamins and charting and all these things is to be under the supervision of a good doctor.
plzzzzzzzzz don't get sad and hold your hope.

Hi Elleth,

I am truly sorry to hear all of that. You know, I saw a special on tv the other night talking about how after people lose loved ones, the telemarketers keep calling their house asking for them. All it did was remind the families of who they lost all over again. I know that you are strong, and your turn will come again. I wish there was more I could say, but I have never experienced even having a baby inside of me. Just try to find comfort in that for whatever reason, it just wasn't meant to be. I wish you a wonderful, healthy pregnancy in the times ahead.
Christie

Thank you so much, everyone. I really appreciate the support.

I am still on the waiting list for IVF and am hoping for a miracle there. It will probably be November or December before I hear anything. By then I will be 41, and the odds keep getting less and less.

Elleth I am really sorry for what you are going through.
I also would have had a baby this month if I hadn't miscarried.
My sister was also sick at this time in the hospital and she gave me all the love and support she could.
I hope you have all the love and support to get through this. .
Maybe in the future you will get someone special who is waiting for you to love and cherish.
I wish you all the love and luck in the world.

Elleth,

I'm sorry to hear of the sad reminders you recieve. I can only imagine how painful it must be. You have been such an amazing source of strength and positive persona for the women here. You know, (by reading the posts) that your amazing strength and resilience do not go unnoticed here on BTZ.

It is now our turn to be there for you. We love you and appreciate who you are. Keep your spirits up. You're destiny awaits you!

Hi Elleth, I am sorry to hear that you are having to go through this sadness. Just know that we are here for you and that my thoughts are with you giving you strength. I pray that everything goes well for you with IVF and you get your little miracle. You deserve it and will make a fantastic mum. Sam