I work full-time with an hour commute to and an hour commute home from work (so basically 10 hour work days). With 4 kids on top on all that, I have no social life....always joke about how my kids are sucking the life out of me (lovingly and jokingly said most of the time). It is hard to get people to watch the kids as most people cant handle our small kids all at once. Usually when mil watches the kids, it is for funeral or something and we feel bad for asking her for more.
So yeah...social life is almost non-existent for the time being.