Thread: Boy Or Girl

i have my scan on the 7th Aug to found out the sex and i cant wait !!!!!
It does fell like its dragging now. This is my first but everyone is saying im having a boy cause im carrying all up front, but i really dont know what im having, i dont know how i should feel if its a boy or a girl

October will be here before you know it !!

lara x x

i know what you mean!!! I have 2 boys already and had so many people be so negative when George was born,it was "oh well never mind" I was like WHAT he's healthy so shut up!!! I wasn't honestly bothered then what I had DH wanted another boy for a playmate for Bradley so it was fine!! This time around because it was an accident I have it in my head it's a girl and so does DH,but I keep saying no it could be a boy, I've had 2 already so .......I won't mind another boy and tell people that as they keep on saying now"Well lets hope it's a girl not a boy this time,that will make the fact it was an accident worth while WHAT THE ***K" I guess deep down I'd like a girl but I don't want to get all wound up about it!! Also DH doesn't want to know the sex so I'd have to ask the sonographer to write it down if I do,we did this last time!!!!!!

yeah thats how i feel if a boy he will be a playmate for louis. no more kids after this one. like you say as long as he/she is healthy i dont care. my partners father said a stupid thing the other day. i dont think he meant it but he said " you know we will have to make extra effort with the new baby. the first one is always special". I said to him i will love him or her just as much as louis. there will be no extra effort on my part. i will love them the same. like my mum does my bro and I. my partner just shakes his head at his dad. luckily he is the only one to come out with a silly comment. people forget they sre talking about a life. its not like a new cat. although i must say i have seen more fuss over animals with some people than kids.

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I know what you mean! I can't wait to find out what I am having. I will find out in September. DH and I have 3 boys. We are hoping for a girl but of course I will be happy with either! What really makes me mad is when we found out #3 was a boy and people said, "I'm sorry." Sorry for what? I am having a healthy baby boy! Some people! I am hoping for a girl. If this is not a girl, we might try one more time!

Jen

no i would rather put the money towards a holiday. if i had lots of cash i would prob buy one though. i can wait just now and again when i look at baby stuff i am just gagging to buy something. unisex clothes are boring...as for people saying sorry anyone would think they had been diagnosed with serious illness

Well..I hope you find out what you're having soon to ease your mind. I wanted a girl, but deep down I knew it was a boy! I can't imagine having a little girl though! I love my little man!

yea i know how u feel i dont find out til sept. and it seems like its takin forever! i really wanna girl but as u said if its a boy i will love him just as much!! but dont worry october will be here before you know it!!

im watching a program called wedding days on channel 4 about people who got married 20 years ago. some unable to have children and a couple with down syndrome. its making me cry...