Thread: If It's not One Thing..It's another..

So as a couple of you know i have had a horrible week, it just seemed like everywhere i turned something was going wrong. Here is how it went:

Wednesday:
I have been having issues with a girl at my job whom i referred there (figures) and she started threatening me over email for no reason so i turned her in. Well in summary she turned it around blamed me and used emails from a few months ago where we had a minor disagreement among friends and blamed it all on that. (even tho things had seemed completely fine since then) well the person handling the situation believed her even tho i had if she had these issues why she kept going out of her way to contact ME for i was staying away and out of it. So in summary the girl told me both of our jobs were now in jeaopardy because of it. So i cried myself sick that day, i love my job i cant imagine my life without it and that stupid (beep) even stated she didnt care if she lost hers. GRR. My boss told me not to worry about it that he wasn't going to let them let me go but ive still been really stressed about it ever since.

Later WEDNESDAY: I get home get a call from a bill collector telling me my bill is late and must be paid NOW, i tell them there must be a misunderstanding because it was due oct 25th i paid it the 17th. They continued to state they received that payment but my next payment was due the 2nd of November. I am trying to calmly resolve the situation but the girl on the phone is getting an attitude and yelling at me then goes off and says maybe i should save my payment and get an attorney!. For what i ask myself for not even being a day late when they changed my due date without my authorization. SO i spend the next 30-45mins calling back i left a message called again and finally someone answered and transferred me back to that ______. And she gets her lil attitude and says oh you going to make a payment now. I said actually i was going to the first time but you went off and hung up on me even tho i have proof my payments have always been paid on the 25th. So i make my payment get my confirm # and hang up on her. Might i also add i left a message for the "manager" but of course no return call.

Well thursday i had an appt to get my allergy shot, i left work at 4 suppose to be there at 430 NO LATER. Got stuck in traffic got there at 450 and had to rescheduled.


Friday I am completely stressed out i try to calm myself and ignore it all and it starts to work. I get home and i ask my DH what he wants for dinner he IMO gets irrational saying he doesnt care i just need to decide blah blah. I ignore it pick a place and ask if thats ok he gets an attitide and i break down crying and go fall into my bed. I felt like no one understands..It seems like i cant have a bad day or week and no one shows me any sympathy what so ever.. so we continue our argument for about 2 hours while i ball my eyes out until we finally go to get food at this point im so sick i take like 3 bites then go to bed.

TODAY! I wake up with a sore throat and a migraine, i kept getting this discomfort pain in my tummy i took my basal temp it is back up to 97.85. I get a phone call and my hair stylist called in sick. I can only go on weekends and i am pretty much booked every weekend until next month and i really needed to go today.

When it rains..It Pours. It sucks really bad cus now i can't tell if my temp is off because of stress or other issues..

Amanda,
Your week really sucked for you didnt it?
Well when there is rain, there then comes a burst of sunshine! If thats of any reassurance to you.....Next week will be better!!
Sometimes its good to get it off your chest though. I had a week like that just after I found out I was preg. My boss cut my days back 1-2 days a week (which sort of didnt worry me but I was angry it wasnt discussed with me) So being argumentative that I am I told him I really needed the work now more than ever because I was pregnant.
His response?
"well that was a stupid thing to do!!!"
That was only the beginning and it only got worse by the end of the week!! I couldnt believe he called me stupid for getting preg!!! I could have murdered him with my bare hands!!
But my DH says if at the end of the year you look back at those issues and they arent issues anymore.....they arent worth getting your knickers in a twist over!! And you just have to accept that a large percentage of people you deal with on a daily basis are morons!!! (hes so nice isnt he???)
Week is over now, and next week a new one!!!!! Make the sun shine even if it rains and keep smiling

Hey Amanda, I agree with Angie, week over, here is to a better new one! I am so sorry you had such a bad week, it is horrible and makes you feel lousy. As Angie said make your own sun shine through the rain. Try not to sink to their level and engage in it and look after yourself first. Believe in karma it will come back to get them, you are a good person. Best wishes for a better week.

Thanks girls! Ive been trying to ignore all these bad/negative things in my life. I feel horrible today and im not sure what its all in relation too. Im usually the type of person to get upset/cry over something for like half an hour if that and then be done with it. I dont like to dwell on things nad make myself sick over them. But for some reason the thought of some immature beep taking away something i love and her not caring really got to me. Im looking past it, im going to TRUST that my boss holds my fate in his hands. I am looking for more positive in my life. My DH and i are going to look at some homes tomorrow and im overly giddy and excited. So im hoping for a turn around in a better week. Thanks again for the responses!

i can SOOO relate to what you're going thru - for the past couple of weeks i've felt like nothing was EVER going to go right...

thankfully it IS all settling down...

Hang in there... its all training for having a toddler....