Thread: mad emotions

Am all over the place for the past week. Celebrated my 40th last Wed and had a huge party on Saturday so very busy. Had a brilliant party and then for some reason unknown to me told my darling partner I didn't know if I loved him ( which is so untrue it's unreal). By the end of the evening I told him I did love him and I don't know what is wrong with me. We have been ttc for the last 2 months and my AF is due around today. Feeling tearful and sick. Tried a test this morning and the damn thing didn't work!!!! I have bought another one but as I don't know when my AF is due I don't know if I should use it.
Help me i'm going slightly mad. Could I be pregnant and this is why things are going askew or what.

To continue last thread. I did the hpt but it was a negative but I know that doesn't mean i'm not. Also has anyone any ideas how to make it up to my partner? I feel so guilty about what I said but he says he is fine about it and also says we are fine but the guilt lingers.

Hi, raik.

I'm so sorry your emotions are all over the place. This can happen when your hormones go whacky, which can definately be a sign that you are pregnant. Since you are unsure about Aunt Flo, I recommend waiting four days before testing and try not to focus on it. If you are pregnant or not, it was obviously your hormones raging that caused problems and not how you truly felt. It really is amazing what they can do. Huge mood swings, personality shifts, etc. Don't put yourself down for it. Just focus on the positive and on your partner.

Sending tons of your way!

Hi Raik!! I know how frustrating it can be when our emotions take over. And I would like to think that if he says he is fine and that you are both fine, then he means it. But men are hard to read sometimes. I have also said hurtful things to my DH in heightened emotions. Sometimes we just FEEL things that we can't explain. It's part of the female make up. But I don't know what you can actually do to "make it up" to him, other than just show him daily that you do love him. He will know.

If you are feeling a stronger range of emotions, it could be that you are PG. It could also be the stress of ttc that can cause you to feel more out of control. Especially around AF time. I really hope for you that its because you are PG! How come you are not sure when your cycle is? Is it irregular?

Best of luck!!!