Thread: i feel so empty

Originally Posted by confused2007

im from wichita. have been for the majority of my life

his cousin is in haysville and rest of his family is in Ark City, we go to haysville at least twice a month

Originally Posted by aunasmom

his cousin is in haysville and rest of his family is in Ark City, we go to haysville at least twice a month

I know some ppl in haysville. and my brother goes to the college in Ark City

Hi there,

i just wanted to say that i have been there. after 3 miscarraigesi have a beautiful baby girl, i also have had medical problems in the past as well and they contributed to the miscarriage. So if i can have a healthy baby, so can you!

i also want to let you know that nothing you did or didnt do (i.e. arguing with your man) can CAUSE a miscarriage, and that sometimes its just natures way. if we lost our babies due to things like that there'd be a whole lot less babies born! (ask anyone thats been through a pregnancy, you argue more then than you do any other time in your life!! )

i guess my point is please dont blame yourself for this miscarriage or your last one. there probably wasnt anything you could have done.

Feel free to PM me if you need some support - i've been in your position...

Originally Posted by Karen

Hi there,

i just wanted to say that i have been there. after 3 miscarraigesi have a beautiful baby girl, i also have had medical problems in the past as well and they contributed to the miscarriage. So if i can have a healthy baby, so can you!

i also want to let you know that nothing you did or didnt do (i.e. arguing with your man) can CAUSE a miscarriage, and that sometimes its just natures way. if we lost our babies due to things like that there'd be a whole lot less babies born! (ask anyone thats been through a pregnancy, you argue more then than you do any other time in your life!! )

i guess my point is please dont blame yourself for this miscarriage or your last one. there probably wasnt anything you could have done.

Feel free to PM me if you need some support - i've been in your position...

I know its my fault, and I know it has to do with the argument. With my medical stuff i cant be stressed, they have already told me that miscarriages will be high and a whole bunch of stuff. I'm supposed to take it easy, not stress or anything like that. I find out more tomorrow. My body attacked the baby and so it is my fault. I've read the books on my medical stuff, its all there. and now, if what i think is true, then my boyfriend is lieing and cheating on me. and its my fault

whats wrong with you medically?

Originally Posted by Karen

whats wrong with you medically?

a thyroid thing. i dont talk about it much, ppl dont knwo what it is

Im sorry you are going through this xxx

so sorry to hear that !! your in our thoughts x x x x

It is so hard to lose a baby. I also have gone back and forth with ths subject. Sometimes I feel that I would rather not have one than lose another one... Just let time heal. Don't do anything you don't feel good about... we are here if you want to talk. Just get those feelings out, and like the girls said, when the time is right, you will know.