Thread: when does it get easier

I don't have a clue...just wanted to send you some hugs.

I think everyone is different when it comes to how long it takes to deal with it better. Just take it one day at a time hun.

I agree with Ahlam. Everyone is different. Just deal with one day and then the next day and then the next

sending lots of hugs your way!

i agree, just take it one day at a time. that's all you can do.

I dunno but I wanted to send you some

I know that my circumstance was quite extreme, but when Seth first died, the days felt like they were getting harder and harder, rather than easier - like I had been expecting. I thought that I had hit rock bottom, but I hadn't even begun. I know that time is a good healer though and the days are now becoming slightly easier. It is a process though, so make sure you don't try and rush 'getting over it' (although I'm not sure you ever do), but it definitly does get easier with time.

I hope that isn't too depressing. Just make sure that you talk about it as much as you need to.

I don't know Kat.....I hope you begin to feel better soon though Maybe once you are finished with your m/c AF, you will begin to feel better physically at least and you can begin to heal emotionally

Thanks for all you kind messages.
My best friend came over and I immeadiately felt a bit better, I knew I would. I have spoken to the doc, still got my appt on friday. Part of me still feels upset but most of me knows it happened for a reason and that I am so lucky to have two healthy children who I love.
thanks so much guys, I know it will take a while but i am getting there
xx