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nosa
August 15th, 2005, 04:50 PM
Tips on Getting Pregnant



To assist you in realizing your dream of maternal bliss, we have put together some tips on helping you getting pregnant!



Ditch the pill

Yes, the first thing is to forget about contraception. You may notice certain irregularities in your cycle and may take a few months for your cycle to return to normal. But many women are fertile the first month after they stop taking the Pill. The same holds true for the contraceptive patch and ring.



Fuel up on folic acid

Folic acid (http://www.babyhopes.com/articles/folic-acid.html) is a synthetic form of folate, a B vitamin that can help reduce the risk of serious birth defects that affect the brain and spinal cord. For this reason, the FDA recommends that all women attempting pregnancy take folic acid supplements for decreasing chances of birth defects.



Quit smoking, drinking and drugs now

Smoking or taking drugs greatly diminishes your chances of getting pregnant and can lead to miscarriages, premature birth, and low-birth weight babies. Plus, research suggests that smoking can affect your fertility and lower your partner's sperm count. In fact, studies have shown that even secondhand smoke may affect your chances of getting pregnant. It is also recommend that women avoid alcohol when trying for pregnancy.



Cut down on Caffeine

Research shows that too much caffeine can reduce your ability to absorb iron and increase your risk for stillbirth. Avoid coffee, tea, and colas or switch to decaf to increase your chances of getting pregnant. If you are a complete caffeine junkie, then the safe limit would be a cup a day. Try switching to a milkshakes which will boost your calcium as well and assist in conception.



Get your weight in check

Healthy weight women have an easier time getting pregnant than overweight or underweight women. Studies show that women whose body mass index (BMI) is below 20 or above 30 have a harder time getting pregnant, so it's a good idea to try to get yourself into the 20 to 30 range before you start trying.



Timing is Everything

You will have little chance of getting pregnant if you had sex on the wrong days and missed the most fertile ones. Figure out your ovulation days with our ovulation calendar (http://www.babyhopes.com/ovulation-calendar/index.html) to increase your chances of conception. Read our articles on Ovulation (http://www.babyhopes.com/articles/what-is-ovulation.html) and Signs of ovulation (http://www.babyhopes.com/articles/signs-of-ovulation.html) to assist you in knowing your fertile period. Ovulation predictor kits (http://www.babyhopes.com/ovulation-predictor-kit.html) can also help you figure out when you're ovulating by detecting hormones in your urine that signal ovulation is about to occur.



Mind Control

Women who suffer from depression are twice as likely to have problems with fertility as women who don't. Get a mental health check if you notice signs of depression. Also, try stress management techniques, such as yoga and meditation, which research suggests can also help in getting pregnant.



Buy something sexy

Some experts say that if a woman is highly aroused while she's having sex, the sperm has a better chance of fertilizing her egg. Others say it makes absolutely no difference. It definitely wont hurt and may even help in boosting your libido and killing that awkward feeling of having sex for pregnancy.



Positioning yourself

Many experts suspect that the missionary position (man on top) provides the best opportunity for getting pregnant, though no definitive studies have been done on this question. This position allows for the deepest penetration which deposits sperm closer to the cervix. For additional effectiveness, the woman can try elevating her hips with a pillow so her cervix is exposed to the maximum amount of semen. Other positions could be Rear entry and lying side-by-side. Avoid woman on top, standing, or leaning positions, which discourage the flow of semen to the uterus.



Increase the Odds

Make your vaginal environment as sperm-friendly as possible. Avoid vaginal sprays and scented tampons, artificial lubricants, and douching. Not only can they cause infections, they may wash away cervical mucus or create a hostile environment for the sperm.

If you find that your cervical mucus (http://www.babyhopes.com/articles/cervical-mucus.html) is not as conducive of getting pregnant as it should be, you may want to try a specific type of lubricant. Pre-Seed (http://www.babyhopes.com/pre-seed.html) lubricant is the sperm friendly choice of many people trying to get pregnant. After intercourse, elevate your hips on a pillow for about fifteen minutes.

For your man

Ask your partner to chuck all briefs and opt for boxers instead for a healthy sperm count. Also, having sex in the morning would help since the semen has the highest number of sperm then.

Finally

Getting pregnant isn't always easy. Very few couples conceive on the first try. In fact, even if everything is absolutely in perfect working order, you only have a 20-25% chance of conception each month. If you are under 30, and haven't conceived in 12 months, you should make an appointment to see your doctor as there could be some issues at play with are preventing you from getting pregnant. If you are over 35, and haven't succeeded in getting pregnant in six months, make an appointment to see your doctor, as infertility issues become more prevelant the older you get. If you are over 40, then do not delay in getting medical help.

k19ely
August 15th, 2005, 05:27 PM
Hi

Great tip's for us newbies here. Thanks for all your hard work. Those odds 20-25% are a lot lower than I thought ( sister got preggy on first time and mum got preggy when on pill) so I though leaving it till I was 27 and hubby 39!! was ok, BIG mistake already on month 3 at trying well it's fun anyhow!!

keep adding any other tips you find.

k19ely

nosa
August 16th, 2005, 04:47 AM
hi dear

ok i'll keep posting any good tips i may ever read.i don't think that trying to get pregnant at certain age is a BIG MISTAKE!bec iam sure you delay it for a reason so don't worry you're gonna be a mommy at the perfect time..take best care

Kat
August 31st, 2005, 08:48 AM
well atleast now i dont have to go on top during sex and can use the argument that il have more chance of getting pregnant on bottom!!! hehe :o) THANKYOU so much for them tips, you answered all the questions us ttc need to know! i didnt know there was more sperm count in the morning, that will meen 7am sex but i spose its worth it hehe!!! i also didnt know your fertile the first month after coming off the pill...a nice bit of news for me as i stopped the pill and now am having sex nearly every day this month hehe fingers crossed!!! il have 2 wait a few weeks before i can test but will u keep your fingers crossed for me?? because i want it so much im worried that maybe i cant concieve...but i could just be paranoid - ive never tried before so fingers crossed xxxxxxx thankyou again xxxxxx

jcainrmcintosh
August 31st, 2005, 08:57 AM
thanks so much for the advice!

My partner Russell was so glad to hear that we are not alone in our quest for a family. He wants four so i'm trying! i would like three hopefully we can reach that far

Just got off phone with doctor, he thinks i may be pregnant so im hoping i am!!! i have hard belly, nausea, my sense of tast and smell is different and im violently ill every day for the last week

I am so scared and excited and anxious at the same time if you have more info that would be great


thanks
Jaide
***Brock Tysen***
m/c 20/08/2005
my lil nephew
gone but not forgotten

Kat
August 31st, 2005, 09:01 AM
wow fingers crossed and good luck jcainrmcintosh!!!!! are you and your partner married or just together? ur 19 right? im 20..not married to my partner..and ttc, have been for a few weeks - how long have u been ttc? did u do a test to see if u where pregnant?

jcainrmcintosh
August 31st, 2005, 09:08 AM
hi

Russell and i have been ttc since january 2005. We met through my ex and he proposed in April this year. We are hoping to have 1 child before the wedding in may so fingers crossed. I am 19 and Russell is 21.

in my family, my mother's side has 1 set of twins and my dad also has 2 sets of twins in lines of generation my brother and myself are the next to expect. he just lost his son Brock Tysen at 3 1/2 months miscarried the day after his bday so i wont be teelinghim or my sister inlaw as this may upset them.

Im worried ill go tothe doctors and find out its all just stress as this is what i am waiting for- to be pregnant


I will be doing a test in the morning the doctor schedule me in so fingers crossed.

Best of luck ttc, i hope all of your dreams come true!
i hope you suceed in babymaking!!

Jaide
***Brock Tysen***
m/c 20/08/05
my nephew
gone but not forgotten

Kat
August 31st, 2005, 09:13 AM
well good luck and fingers crossed!!! thankyou, should just have 2 weeks to wait then i can test - i tesated negative this morning but its not near my cycle so its probarbly to early 2 detect! i just wanna b on of the many women to say "im pregnant" i was gutted when it said negative even though i expected it! back 2 ttc for me!!!!

jcainrmcintosh
August 31st, 2005, 09:20 AM
well the best of luck go out from us to you and your partner

Russell knows the feeling of having the negative response

but he sends out his best wishes and he'll keep his fingers crossed for you both As will I

I will post early in the mornignand let you know what happens


JAIDE
***Brock Tysen***
m/c 20/08/2005
my lil nephew
gone but not forgotten

nosa
September 1st, 2005, 06:56 AM
hi ladies
iam happy that tips were helpful! my doctor has told me that it's better in the time of ovulation to have sex every other day not everyday!bec everyday may affect the count of sperms and the important thing is you're not missing more than one day so even if you ahve intercourse for two days you can't also missing more than one day!
good luck

rachna
May 29th, 2006, 11:39 AM
hi,I am rachna and new to this discussion .I am married for 8 years and have not concieved.My husband's sperm count is near10 millions.We had once tried IUI.It is very difficult for my husband to give the sample at the spot as he becomes very concious

rachna
May 29th, 2006, 01:17 PM
hi,I am rachna and new to this discussion .I am married for 8 years and have not concieved.My husband's sperm count is near10 millions.We had once tried IUI.It is very difficult for my husband to give the sample at the spot as he becomes very concious:bluedust: My prolactin level is also high.I have regular periods.I can't afford IVF.PLease suggest so that i can concieve.

dilek
March 2nd, 2007, 08:10 AM
hi to everybody.thank you for the tips.I believe the most important thing is not to get stressed but I cannot avoid it.every month I wait with hope but unfourtanetly tests are negative:(